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Self-pity is so out of season

Thursday, November, 27, 2008
Anyone who knows me knows I'm a pretty happy and optimistic person. But as we approach December and I look back over 2008 I realize that, quite frankly, this year has sucked!

Aside from the fact that I was hit by a freaking car, my husband and I had a death in our family, I was diagnosed with a chronic illness and I've faced several disappointments in my professional, personal and spiritual lives this year.

But it's Thanksgiving and self-pity does not become me. It's time out for feeling sorry for myself. So I'm going to make like nearly every other writer in the blogosphere and post a list of things I'm grateful for today. (Yes, I know it's cliche, but cut me some slack. I did get hit by a car, you know.)

So here we go. Today I give thanks for...

My husband. He's smart, he's sweet, he's funny and he has the cutest ass I've ever seen.

My cousin Tasha. She's like the sister I never had but always wanted and probably the only person on earth who understands me and my neurosis.

HBO. If you also got hooked on True Blood this fall, then you understand.

My butt. It saved my life. No, really, it did.

You! Because you read my ramblings.

Glamour, Bust, Venus Zine, Underwired, Essence, Heart & Soul and all the other magazines that got me through hours on the elliptical machine at the gym.

The cute guy who loads the vending machines at work.

Cake. How can you not thank God for cake?

The fact that I filled up my nearly-empty gas tank the other day for less than $20.

The fact that my mom, dad, brother and I never hang up the phone without saying 'I love you' and that tonight before I go to bed I'll be able to say it in person.
Cross posted at GeorgiaMae.com.

Charlene Ross
Charlene Ross
Posted Thu, 11/27/2008 - 11:52
Great post! I love "Thankful" lists. Sounds like you have had a crappy 2008 - hit by a car??!? Are you okay? Wishing you a better 2009 than 2008 - it's so great to hear that you are still optimistic, so many people waa waa waa "Why me?!" Why me's are okay for a little while but we all have to pick ourselves up at some point right? You obviously have a great outlook on life. Am now going to read how your butt saved your life. (I have a feeling I have one of those butts!)
writeousbabe
writeousbabe
Posted Mon, 12/01/2008 - 21:17
I'm much better now. Thanks for asking. And yay for our ample booties!
ReneeCK
ReneeCK
Posted Thu, 11/27/2008 - 13:25
As someone who always tries to find the bright side of things, this sounds like a year where you can truly say "well, there's no place to go from here but UP!"

< And if another low point hits, you can be truly surprised. But, God doesn't give hard to people who can't handle it. (She must think I'm much stronger than I imagine.)

Cake. Absolutely must thank cake.
Renee- writer and WOMAN!
writeousbabe
writeousbabe
Posted Mon, 12/01/2008 - 21:16
Well, my job is announcing lay offs this week, so we'll see if it can get worse. lol
BCBlogger
BCBlogger
Posted Mon, 12/01/2008 - 10:58
after the year you've had, I'm SO thankful that you can find things to be thankful about. I'd probably be sitting in a dirty bathrobe, shoving Twizzlers in my mouth and crying over old movies. . .and bemoaning my sore booty! xoxox
writeousbabe
writeousbabe
Posted Mon, 12/01/2008 - 21:15
You see, you're a better woman than me because I'll sit in my dirty robe and stuff my face with Twizzlers for no good reason. LOL